I remember a time when we were flourishing, the gifts we bought became year after year more expensive. We made wish lists so we would get the gifts we really want and need. But it all changed. In 2008 Christmas had for us as a family a different look and feel. Our business faced severe financial distress, because of the economic downturn and some bad decisions, which had a direct impact upon us. There was no money for gifts and luxuries.

 

I came up with an idea, that would make that Christmas special and every other Christmas that followed. Traditionally, in our family on Christmas Eve, we would sit around the coffee table and share with our children, the message of Christmas. We would then move over to the dinner table. After dinner, we would return to the lounge and exchange gifts. 

 

That Christmas we started a new tradition. As we sat down around the coffee table, to share about the message of Christmas, I handed each one a card, asking that they fill it out with at least, five things they are grateful for. I collected the cards without reading them and hung them onto the Christmas tree. The following year, I would read out each one's gratitude card of the previous year, after we filled out the new cards. As I read the cards aloud, we would cheer and encourage each other. Sometimes reading the gratitude cards, our eyes would well up. Over the years, some have expressed gratitude for things they would like to accomplish and have in their lives. 

 

As the family has grown in age and number, I still love to sit and watch each one, as they ponder upon the many things they can and should be grateful for. This is such a beautiful picture to watch. During this very special time with my family; around the festive table, we share our highs and lows of the past year which makes this beautiful season even more special. We not only celebrate the gift of Jesus Christ, but we also celebrate each other - all that God has done and still going to do.

 

This year, we will be celebrating Christmas, at my daughter’s place in the UK, and I will carry with me last year’s gratitude cards. As we prepare to celebrate this Christmas, let us ponder upon the reason Christ was born, the many things we can and should be grateful for, and for all that he is doing in us and through us. Merry Christmas and God Bless!